a project revived … Out Loud & Proud … http://www.geocities.com/jermyn_toh/

by JermynToh on 16 September, 2005

In 1996, I put together a personal website with my story of coming out, being gay and falling in love. It was really an effort to present a gay asian man’s perspective at a time when there weren’t very many gay asian personal websites. 

I took the site down except for the landing page over a year ago ’cause I felt it had lost its relevance.

I recently met someone who asked me what happened to the rest of the pages. He had read the site many years ago and wanted to revisit some of the things I wrote but couldn’t find any of the old content. That made me dig up my old site and in doing so I reread the guestbook.

Funny that I actually forgot how many people visited and left a word or two about what they felt after reading what I had posted.

Here’s an update of my personal website for old times sake. 

http://www.geocities.com/jermyn_toh/

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JermynToh September 20, 2005 at 5:33 am

i come back for a week each month la …. this time i’ll be back 23 sept to 29 sept

BF is coming back too … his name is bryan or profile of junhon on fridae

maybe we’ll catch u at happy since i’ve got to bring him around

:-)

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runecircle September 17, 2005 at 7:12 am

wow….

wow.

hug. :)

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stargate_bum September 17, 2005 at 1:47 am

it’s alright…been pretty busy with work…i gather i won’t see much of u now that you’re based in KL too rite?

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JermynToh September 17, 2005 at 1:45 am

thank you for visiting gal! …. i realised from the guestbook entries that many of the visitors were gals

guess us queer folk have always been a quirky point of interest for women folk huh

have a good weekend yeah!

:-)

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JermynToh September 17, 2005 at 1:43 am

actually was thinking of that …. but the geocities address is part of the history

if u ever remember geocities … setting up a website was so fun!

u surfed on in … looked through a town map based on interests … and picked a house number. you could see who ur neighbours were and their interests etc ….

so i choose WestHollywood where other gay and lesbian people from the world were and picked house number 8387!! i think i was next to a lesbian and another gay guy both from the states!

shaoann got an address “near” by too although the gals completely forgotten her geocities address

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ellcrius September 17, 2005 at 1:43 am

that was years ago… when u were still with tony. and i didnt know u then wat… haha

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JermynToh September 17, 2005 at 1:36 am

you visited the site before and u didn’t tell me??!!!

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JermynToh September 17, 2005 at 1:36 am

thank you thank you …. i remember you told me you visited my site … going through the comments i’m wondering if u left a messsage or not too … its funny who i know as frens now signed my guestbook

more great years to you too … hope all is well with u sweets

hugs

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JermynToh September 17, 2005 at 1:34 am

yeah … funnny huh .. blast from the past. when i signed up … it was like a little town map with houses numbers you could pick.

geocities was bought over by yahoo! to be packaged as an offering.

when you sign up for a yahoo mail account you get a photos, briefcase and geocities account all bundled

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urbank1d September 16, 2005 at 10:03 pm

I TOT GEOCITIES WAS OBSOLETE ALREADY!

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stargate_bum September 16, 2005 at 7:51 pm

sweetie..i remember your website from so many years ago when we first met (read it before meeting you). It’s nice to reminisce. Kudos and many more happy years to you!

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ellcrius September 16, 2005 at 5:32 pm

ps. i visited ur website when i was struggling with myself. thanks for being there, and helping me “discover” myself… heh

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ellcrius September 16, 2005 at 5:22 pm

boss lady, u should get ur own domain… victor’s trying to sell off what he has outstanding from our vendor… :P

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summervine September 16, 2005 at 4:20 pm

great site, really provides insights to people like me. two thumbs up!

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JermynToh September 16, 2005 at 3:36 pm

hahah … thanks for your comments and for your visitorship …. *bows japanese style*

its funny how many people i know actually read the site first before i met them

:-)

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vincentt_whale September 16, 2005 at 3:17 pm

Hey, I came across your webaite few years ago and it inspired me a lot (not mentioning that I admired the owner of the website =p).
In my opinion, the website is great. =)

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